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Do you long for hope amid mental, emotional, or everyday struggles?
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Join life coach,
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author,
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and trauma survivor Tammy Kennington on From Hardship to Hope,
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the podcast for Christian women navigating the intersection of motherhood,
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mental health,
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and matters of faith.
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If you need biblical support, encouragement, and actionable tips, this show is for you.
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Welcome.
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I'm your host, Tammy Kennington.
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In today's episode, we'll explore effective methods to treat PTSD.
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We did in the last episode consider one of those methods when we spoke with Sally
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Miller about inner healing prayer.
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And I'll put a link in today's episode if you haven't yet listened.
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That's a very valuable and helpful episode.
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But there are other methods.
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that are commonly used to treat people who struggle with PTSD and or complex
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post-traumatic stress disorder.
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And that's our focus today.
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The three types of intervention and healing methods I want for us to consider are
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cognitive behavioral therapy,
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eye movement desensitization and reprocessing,
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and then prolonged exposure for PTSD.
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So I've done a little bit of research about these.
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I personally never attempted to integrate or reintegrate parts or deal with any of
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my PTSD symptoms using prolonged exposure therapy,
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but I do know people who have used it very effectively and have been in counseling
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sessions on a regular basis with that particular method.
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I did, as I've mentioned before,
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begin utilizing EMDR or eye movement desensitization and reprocessing as one
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technique to help me deal with my symptoms.
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And of course,
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cognitive behavioral therapy has been around the longest,
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and that was the first type of therapy I ever was introduced to in my journey for healing.
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So let's get started.
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If you have not yet visited any of our earlier episodes and aren't familiar with
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the common characteristics,
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definition,
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symptoms,
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and causes of post-traumatic stress disorder or complex post-traumatic stress disorder,
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I'll place a link in this episode.
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You can just hop over to episode one, Hope for Those Who Live with PTSD, and
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and learn a little bit more about all of those areas and really what PTSD actually is.
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Today, let's start with discussing EMDR.
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Eye movement desensitization and reprocessing always makes my tongue trip,
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but that is a type of psychotherapy that helps people heal from those traumatic
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memories and distressing experiences.
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And by
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either moving their eyes back and forth or listening to a rhythmic sound.
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So in my situation,
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my therapist held two clickers,
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one in each hand,
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and each of them had a light and I was to follow as she clicked.
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Her approach incorporated both the sound and a visual representation.
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The idea is that bilateral stimulation in the brain helps process a memory in conjunction with
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the emotion and helps us to connect those.
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The research seems to indicate that people who are dealing with PTSD were not able
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to initially connect that cognitive process of the trauma with that emotional
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process and that the two need to really be able to meld in order to heal.
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Research does suggest that this is one very highly effective means of healing in
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treating trauma across age groups.
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One study, for instance, found that EMDR was
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equally effective whether it was administered weekly in one-on-one sessions or
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in intensive 10-day group sessions.
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Some studies that I've read also reveal that up to six sessions can really help
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mitigate those symptoms that people with which they're struggling.
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So it is recognized as an effective treatment by the American Psychiatric Association and
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and the Department of Defense,
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which is interesting because many of our soldiers who've gone to the battlefield
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repeatedly also struggle with PTSD.
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Let's then consider prolonged exposure therapy.
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This is a therapy in which people with PTSD
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are exposed,
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as one might suspect,
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to the feelings and situations that actually inhibit them from recovering.
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It helps us, in other words, to face our fears.
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As we've learned, avoidance is one of the key ways
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Hallmarks of PTSD,
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avoidance of symptoms,
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rather avoidance of those feelings,
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avoidance of memories and so forth.
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So by talking about details of the event or events and by confronting safe
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situations that you've been avoiding,
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you can minimize those symptoms and really gain more control over
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your life.
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This is also a type of therapy that's used to help people, for example, who struggle with OCD.
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It helps them deal with those areas that they tend to avoid.
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And it really helps us get to know more about
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about what is motivating us.
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According to the research I've been able to uncover,
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you're often taught some breathing techniques to help manage anxiety.
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And then you may even create a list of places,
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people,
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or things that cause or trigger those PTSD symptoms and those that you've stayed
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away from.
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Then you delve into
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each one of those areas you've listed or noted within each session.
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So you might tackle one at a time and slowly begin to increase that exposure to
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that thought and be able then to recognize that there is control that you have and
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that you will end up having fewer memories,
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unwanted memories when you don't want to.
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Then
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Cognitive behavioral therapy, as we've mentioned, is very common.
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It's a longstanding way for people to deal with any number of traumatic events.
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And it helps to create safety for someone who struggles with PTSD symptoms.
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And it really must happen with someone that you trust, with someone in a place that feels safe.
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so that you can begin to heal.
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The idea is that it helps us to clearly or objectively think about the trauma and
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our lives before we were impacted by trauma,
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if possible.
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So it focuses on problem-solving skills that can help change our emotional and
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physical reactions when we're triggered.
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And that's really the biggest goal.
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So we want to promote self-control,
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a sense of control and trust,
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develop healthier ways to respond to those times when we're triggered,
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and then learn how to calm those emotions.
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anxious-laden responses that our body has when we feel triggered.
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So that is just a quick overview of each of those types of therapy.
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There are other types that some people find very healing,
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art therapy,
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equine therapy,
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having a pet,
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a dog,
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for example,
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to help serve as a support for
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Many times a support dog can help a person recognize when they're starting to become triggered.
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So you might want to consider looking into those types of therapy as well.
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I would like to talk for a minute about healing and therapy.
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why our faith and ways in which our faith can really build those keys of resilience in our lives.
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And I do talk a little bit about resilience in episode three, Moving Beyond Trauma's Wasteland.
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And again, I'll link to that episode because we do learn more about other keys to resilience.
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But one of those keys that research shows is very important is faith.
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We know and have discussed the range of experiences David had,
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the traumatic experiences with which he dealt.
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We know trauma is not unfamiliar to people in Scripture.
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It's been a part of the human experience since the fall.
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Everyone from Cain and Abel to Joseph to Jesus died.
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experienced some level of trauma and we are no different in this fallen world but
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with our god we can live healthy lives we can move beyond the pain of trauma and
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ptsd into a life as a whole functioning person who experiences joy and fulfillment
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that's really my goal and hope and prayer for you
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So let's talk a little bit about healthy coping mechanisms.
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I mentioned deep breathing and how in exposure therapy,
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many of those therapists will discuss the importance of deep breathing.
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We know that deep breathing calms the portions of our brain that are impacted by
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trauma that get triggered and take our prefrontal cortex away.
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off of, it takes it out of commission when we're triggered.
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And that's the part of our brain that we use for executive functioning skills that
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helps us really process and think about situations from a cognitive standpoint.
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But when our emotions are triggered,
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when we feel all those feels in our body,
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that's when the amygdala and the hippocampus and just the base of our neck,
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our very base sorts of functions kick into gear
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And it becomes difficult for us to think clearly.
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So when we breathe deeply,
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when we learn how to breathe during those moments,
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it can help us calm down those areas of our brains.
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and reconnect with that prefrontal cortex so that we start to engage again in thought.
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And that's one of our key steps toward becoming healthy and whole.
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So there are several kinds of breathing techniques.
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Some are very simple that we can employ.
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Anytime we feel that anxiety racing down our arms or our spines or our heart rate
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increases or anger starts to take over,
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One of these methods is the flower candle method.
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And I teach this to my little students in elementary classrooms because it's effective for anybody.
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So the way to do it is to breathe in for a count of four as if you're inhaling the
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scent of a flower that's your favorite.
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You might want to think of maybe coffee.
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Maybe you're a coffee drinker.
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Something that you imagine inhaling for a count of four.
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And then you blow it out slowly as though you're breathing or blowing out a candle
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on a birthday cake,
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again,
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for a count of four.
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And you do this for a series of four times.
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That kind of breathing technique will really help calm the body's response.
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Other ways that we can incorporate healthy coping mechanisms are journaling and reading.
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Journaling can be an incredibly healing way to put our thoughts down on paper,
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to begin to connect with not just the event itself,
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but to recognize the emotions that we felt,
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the way our bodies were impacted.
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And in fact, one of my writer friends, authors named Katie Lee has a great nonprofit called
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in Salt Lake City called Story Haven Writers.
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And she is investing in other women who are sharing their trauma stories by writing.
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So you might want to check out Story Haven Writers and even study how to journal your story.
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Or if that's something you already do, just
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Just dive in.
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Even in those moments when you're feeling triggered,
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it can really release a lot of that pain and help us cope.
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So far, we've talked a little bit about journaling as well as breathing.
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And of course, we know the role of social support and community is a really important piece for healing.
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And we did talk about that in our discussion earlier.
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when we learned more about those factors that really foster resilience.
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So I encourage you just to search out that social support and community.
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And then finally,
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I encourage that you have self-compassion,
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that you have patience for yourself in the healing process.
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We know it can be a long and arduous journey.
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It's again like getting through that desert of
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before you reach that promised land.
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So just a few keys to self-care and growth.
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I would like to share a little bit
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from verses that could really have encouraged me.
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Psalm 34, 17 reads,
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Again, that's Psalm 34, 17.
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And then Isaiah 43, 2.
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When you pass through the waters, I will be with you.
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When you pass through the rivers, they will not sweep over you.
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When you walk through the fire, you will not be burned.
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The flames will not set you ablaze.
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So I just encourage you,
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friend,
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if you are walking through this journey,
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that you would consider one of these types of therapy if you aren't already
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practicing
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meeting with anybody.
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If you don't yet have a counselor, you can hop over to Focus on the Family.
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They have a long and extensive list of counselors at their website.
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And you can even just Google psychiatrists or counselors in your area.
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And I do encourage you, if you haven't already, to perhaps seek out a support group in your area or
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Reach out to Crystal Sutherland at Journey to Heal.
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She has online groups and groups in person.
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It's a great ministry, and there are even groups for men.
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So if you know a man who might benefit from support in a community,
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then I suggest that you share this episode with them.
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So if you don't mind, I'd just like to offer a prayer for you.
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Jesus, I thank you that you are the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort.
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We know you do comfort us in all our troubles.
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We know, Jesus, that you suffered.
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You know what abuse is, and you recognize our need for you to fill up our hurting spaces with your love.
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Father God, I just pray healing over each woman listening today.
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and ask that you would guide her to the community she needs, to the counselor who will help her to heal.
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And we thank you that you don't leave us alone,
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God,
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but that you have professionals who can really support us,
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and friends and family and church and community members who also want to help us
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walk through our pain.
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God, I ask that your healing hand would be on each woman listening today.
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In your name I pray, amen.
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Thank you for listening to From Hardship to Hope.
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You can find the show notes for this episode, including links at TammyKennington.substack.
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I invite you to hop over to Apple Podcasts or Spotify and search from Hardship to Hope.
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I'll also provide links there in Substack.
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that would help other people find out more about the show and to receive the
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encouragement they need.
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Thank you again for listening.
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Until next time.
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Journey to Heal Ministries (Crystal Sutherland)
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